Relationship between Alcestis and Admetus

Alcestis was one of the best dramas of Euripides. He wrote this drama at a time when women had hardly any rights in Ancient Greece. So, to write a drama in which the main character will be a woman was not an easy task considering the social condition of that time. Admetus was the husband of Alcestis and he was the ruler of the land. So, the first relationship we can think of Alcestis and Admetus is of husband and wife and then they were king and queen.

The King was the ruler of the land and was higher than anyone. So, Admetus was higher than Alcestis in two ways- one as a man and secondly as a ruler. Alcestis was a woman and was like second class people in the rank of servants. The citizens were the chorus and they were supporting and feeling pity for Admetus.

On the other hand, the servants liked Alcestis because she was a generous woman and always treated the servants well. So, sometimes, we get the death news of Alcestis not from Admetus but from the female servants.

Admetus was not a bad man or bad husband. He was a very hospitable man. Despite the death of Alcestis, he hid it from Heracles as Heracles would feel sad after coming to their home. He even drank with Heracles as a part of welcoming the guest. However, it shows that he considered his role as a host or friend more important than his role as a husband.

Alcestis sacrificed her life for her husband because she loved her husband and also she did not want her children to become fatherless at such an early age. Thus, in a way the relationship between Alcestis and Admetus was one way. Alcestis was supposed to sacrifice everything and give all the services just because she was the wife and woman. On the other hand, as the man and husband, Admetus was enjoying everything. 

This kind of relationship between a husband and a wife was perhaps natural in ancient Greece. What is uncommon is how Euripides showed this relationship. He was a bit sympathetic towards Alcestis. The father of Admetus did not want to die in his place but Alcestis did this highest level of sacrifice.